If It's in Your Head, You're Dead
- Kryssie Thomson

- Aug 29
- 2 min read
The moment knowledge stays locked in one brain is the moment burnout begins for the next person.

I’ve seen it happen too many times...
Someone sits in a role for ten years or more. They carry all the know-how, the shortcuts, the back doors, the fire drills. Everyone relies on them. And then one day, they leave.
Suddenly, the person stepping in is handed a set of keys, a vague job title, and a mountain of invisible expectations. No checklist. No handbook. No process. Just a decade of knowledge that walked out the door.
The result? Burnout. Not because the new person is incapable, but because they were set up to fail.
That’s what I mean when I say: If it’s in your head, you’re dead.
What Happens When Knowledge Stays Hidden
Burnout – New people exhaust themselves reinventing the wheel.
Fragility – The group relies on one person’s memory instead of shared systems.
Legacy Loss – All the passion, effort, and years of work vanish when someone leaves.
I see it in fairs, nonprofits, and small organizations. Everyone is running on grit, volunteers are stretched thin, and leaders convince themselves they don’t have time to slow down.
But here’s the truth. The time you “save” by not writing things down is the exact time you’ll lose later when confusion, mistakes, and burnout hit.
It doesn’t take binders that collect dust. It takes making the work visible so anyone can step in.
I’ve seen groups transform when they do this. A board member leaves, and instead of panic, the next person slides in with a roadmap. A volunteer coordinator steps down, and instead of overwhelming the new recruit, the transition feels manageable.
The Perspective Shift
This isn’t about control. It’s about care.
Systems protect people.
They keep the fire burning without burning your people out.
If the knowledge in your group lives only in one brain, you’re on borrowed time. Protect your people. Protect your legacy.
Write it down, share it, and keep it alive.
Because the passion you poured in should not die with you.It should live on in the work that continues long after you step away.
And the truth is simple.
If it’s in your head, it’s already dead.
Kryssie ❦




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